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I recently read a book I can not for the life of me remember what it was. But one of the key points in the book that I took away was a really awesome point. It was about regaining manhood. About how so many men are neutered. One of the ideas that the author left us the readers was that we should go out into a mall or a public place once a week and ask women for phone numbers. The conversation would be simple.

Hi, I couldn’t help but notice how ‘gorgeous’ or ‘amazing’ you are can I have your phone number?

One thing I’ve found in doing this experiment. Yes I actually did this. And you know what I walked away with a pretty high yes to no ratio based on the level of confidence and how engaging I was.

The same thing goes for those looking to score links from all the hottest bloggers. Here’s a sample email I sent out to some friends and pals in the industry.

To The Most influential people I know that will actually read this website are you guys!

That’s why I’m sending you this.

Recently I’ve gotten back into web publishing after a little hiatus of consulting for another firm and I’m gung ho. I love the fire that launching a new site gives you. I’ve hand selected some articles that I feel you and your readers can glean some wisdom from. I love feedback so feel free to toss me plenty.

Post #1 Title Goes Here
This is where the first Url Goes

Post #2 Title Goes Here
This is where the second url goes

Thanks for taking the time to look the site over. Feel free to subscribe to the RSS Feed:
This is where the feed address goes

Please do let me know if you post a mention on your blog as I’d love to post something about your company, or upcoming exciting project.

Thanks,
Me | Publisher
My Website Address

Number one this email does a few things for you it builds your confidence in sending it out to folks in your niche. It also will help build your subscriber base and build quality inbound links. But most importantly it builds your confidence. Just like walking through a mall and asking girls for their numbers after a few interactions you get more and more confident. The best way to build a site is to not be afraid and just go out and do it. Spend half your time creating amazing content - spend the rest of your time creating amazing relationships no matter the quantity its quality that counts.

What are you waiting for? Seize the day.

Ask her for her number already.